Norah Needs You

You can join the Be The Match bone marrow registry if you: - Are between the ages of 18-60 - Live in the United States - Meet health guidelines - Are willing to donate to a patient in need If you are between the ages of 18-44, you are especially needed because research shows that donations from younger donors lead to more successful transplants. For this reason. doctors request donors in the 18-44 age group 85% of the time. The easiest way to find out if you meet health guidelines is to start the registration process. (A list can also be found here.)

Joining the Be The Match registry is as simple as completing a 6 minute survey, opening your snail mail letter 3-7 business days later, and swabbing the inside of your cheeks using a cotton swab – swabbing is quick, easy and painless. Return the swab kit in an envelope and, Abra K Dabra, you're on the registry. You only donate bone marrow if someone is a genetic match and presently in need of a transplant. You may be their only hope for a cure.

Donating bone marrow is an extremely low-risk procedure. In the event that your marrow could save a life, you would first have a physical examination and a blood draw to ensure that you're the perfect match and that you are healthy enough to donate. Though no medical procedure is without risk, there are rarely any long-term side effects. Norah herself has to get bone marrow biopsies annually to find out her risk of bone marrow failure/leukemia, a procedure that is at least as challenging as donating marrow. Discharged by lunch time after her first bone marrow biopsy, she took a two hour nap and while bruised, was dancing in the rain that evening. There are two different methods of donating bone marrow depending upon the needs of the recipient. The majority (80%) of donors donate through a non-surgical procedure similar to a blood draw, which involves injections of a drug to increase the number of cells in your bloodstream for the 5 days leading up to the donation. The other 20% donate with a needle through a hole already in the hip while under general anesthesia, so you will feel no pain during the donation. More information can be found here.

We know that the likelihood of finding a bone marrow match increases substantially along ancestry lines. For Norah, this means that we are looking more heavily for a donor with Jewish Ashkenazi ancestry, though her match may or may not end up being Jewish. We also know that many other groups are severely under-represented in the bone marrow registry, resulting in low odds of finding a donor. We are in this to help Norah and all children who need a life-saving match.

Yes! We don't know whether you will be Norah's match until you join the registry. Also, if you aren't a match for Norah, you might be able to save someone else's life. (Likewise, maybe Norah's match will have joined the registry through a different campaign, in honor of someone else’s loved one. Generosity begets generosity.)

No, if you are between the ages of 18-44 years old, you can register and donate for free. If you are 45-60 years old, Be the Match charges you $100 to register and donate to cover their costs for you to join.* If you are 61 years old or older, you are not able to join the registry. *Why pay if you're 45 to 60 years old? The best, long term outcomes for bone marrow patients is with bone marrow donors who are under 45 years old. Therefore, Be the Match covers the cost to process that age group. However, sometimes recipients do not have any other options. Donations from this age group might be a patient's only chance for survival.

No. Donating bone marrow is not like donating an organ that you don't get back. Your cells replenish themselves in 4 to 6 weeks. Because only 1 to 5% or less of your marrow is needed to save a patient’s life, your immune system stays strong.

Marrow donors should expect to return to work, school and most other activities within 1 to 7 days. Your marrow will return to normal levels within a few weeks.

Donors between 18-44 years of age never pay for donating and are never paid to donate. All medical costs for the donation procedure are covered by the National Marrow Donor Program, which operates the Be The Match Registry, or by the patient's medical insurance, as are travel expenses and other non-medical costs. If necessary, paid time off from work (including recovery time) is also covered by Be The Match, if not covered by your employer.

First, please confirm. Second, if you are on the registry, make sure that they have your most up to date contact information! If they cannot reach you and you are a match, all you are giving is false hope. They must be able to reach you. You can check if you are registered with Be The Match by calling 1 (800) MARROW-2. You can check if you are registered with Gift of Life at https://www.giftoflife.org/page/content/am-i-registered

NO! We are Norah's parents and we are not matches for her. We think finding Norah's winning match is like finding a winning lottery ticket. It is highly unlikely that any one lottery ticket would win. However, the more lottery tickets that exist the more likely SOMEONE will win (in this case, the prize is the opportunity to save our daughter's life--the greatest lottery prize of all). Therefore, it's a numbers game. Even more important than you, yourself, joining the registry is you recruiting 10 people to do so (who then also recruit 10 people each as well...). Please help us expand the registry by encouraging others in your network to register and by hosting drives.